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Re: Dear Abby

To: acmiller@mhcable.com, healeys@autox.team.net
Subject: Re: Dear Abby
From: tammie wall <whammie@iopener.net>
Date: Fri, 15 Jul 2005 09:41:34 -0500
perhaps, you, rather than M, is having a mid-life crisis.
jerry
ps. oh, i forgot, it's friday funnies.
Allen C Miller, Jr. wrote:
 > 
 > Dear Abby~
 > 
 > As you know, 'M' and I have been having a lot of problems over the last two
 > years. She's had quite a few health issues after rising from her 20-year coma
 > and moving east to upstate New York. We're all past that now, but something
 > more ominous is looking. For the last two weeks, her behavior is, well, giving
 > me great concerns for her mental state. With all the problems she's been
 > having, she should be taking it a little easy, but that  isn't the case.
 > 
 > When she starts in the morning, it isn't the usual churning and steam rising
 > through the louvres from the starter. It's one or two turns and VeROOOM. If
 > I'm not careful, the tach races to 2000. She's acting like a teenager. To calm
 > her down a bit, I take her the back way to work over the old Dutch farm route,
 > with those ridiculously tight, reversed banked chicanes, hoping she'lll just
 > quite down and act her age. But no, she has a mind of her own, and just guns
 > it like some 90's something hopped on nitro.
 > 
 > We enter town after the little run, and all she does is embarrass me. At each
 > stoplight she pulls my foot down against the accelerator, leaving me no choice
 > but to pretend I'm enjoing it. Every time she sees a younger model, she races
 > ahead part of the block until I can get her back line. I think she must have
 > had quite a different life in Southern California, but I just don't feel
 > comfortable asking about her past.
 > 
 > I've tried everything from placating her insatiable demand for advancing the
 > spark, guzzling high octane gas (I even gave into a tank of racing fuel hoping
 > she'd get it of her system!). I even resorted to pulling that stupid sports
 > coil with the white plastic and replacing it with a more appropriate dowdy
 > Lucas stock coil dated 12-55, hoping it would remind her of age. Dou you think
 > she come to her senses? Absolutely not! She had some mystery mechanic throw in
 > an MSD-6 under the passenger foot box, thinking I wouldn't notice.
 > 
 > I've gone the other route, depriving her of basic respect -- leaving her in a
 > haybarn at night, not putting her top up when it start's to sprinkle. Nothing,
 > I mean nothing, seems to daunt her.
 > 
 > Jean also notices it. When we go around corners climbing the Berkshire hills,
 > M sudden will dart ahead around hairpins, forcingJean for the sissy handle.
 > 
 > She's incorrigible. It's getting so bad, she won't even think of a simple
 > evening drive without the windscreen is down.
 > 
 > Personally, I think she's acting out a bit because she's going to turn 50 in
 > October. It's happened to others. Or maybe it's not just mid-life crisis but
 > something more serious; perhaps Althzeimer's. It almost seems the only thing
 > she remembers is that test drive at Warwick the week she left for America. I
 > don't know.
 > 
 > Any advice will be welcome. We can keep going like this. What should we do?
 > 
 > Allen
 > 
 > Your messages not reaching the list?




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