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Re: [Roadsters] Petty infighting

To: Jim Gammon <gtpjimgammon@yahoo.com>
Subject: Re: [Roadsters] Petty infighting
From: Eddie <eddietude@socal.rr.com>
Date: Wed, 11 Aug 2010 08:43:12 -0700
Jim,

You forgot a few other reasons.

3) Forum Subject Gods.  In every forum, there are those who think they 
are the end all, be all know it all about the subject of the forum.  
Usually these pathetic people have nothing else going on in their lives, 
and their entire existence or "being" is wrapped up in that one 
subject.  In this case, the subject being "Datsun Roadsters".

4) Sense of Entitlement.  Many times, this is coupled with #3.  As a 
"expert" these people think they should get everything for free, or at a 
"discount" over others.  Like somehow their "advanced knowledge" 
entitles them to things over other roadster owners.  

As for "talking roadsters".... again, someone posting they have parts 
for sale IS talking roadsters.  It's letting the community know he has 
parts for sale. 

To further the irony, right after a select few here got their panties in 
a bunch, someone posted they needed a specific part.  Yet the very 
person who HAS what they need has been unceremoniously booted from the 
list, thus doing a disservice to the entire community.  Someone show me 
the logic in that...

Again, let's be real and honest.  The issue wasn't his posting the 
parts.  It was the prices.  IF he'd posted stuff cheap, those who got 
upset wouldn't care in the least.  They got upset because they didn't 
like his prices... again, sense of entitlement...

Not stirring up trouble, just keeping it REAL. 

Eddie




Jim Gammon wrote:
> I lurk.
>  
> I don't see any reason for a forum such as this to have any petty infighting.
> But I have been on many such lists, and it crops up from time to time.
>  
> It is ALWAYS the result of two things:
>  
> 1. The lack of being able to see and understand each other as we speak (or
> conversely a lack of communications skills - either expression or
> comprehension)
>  
> 2. Thin skinned people (or conversely petty people who have nothing better to
> do than make trouble where none exists.)
>  
> So lighten up, leave the insults at the door and talk roadsters.
>  
> JimG NJ 69 2K
> slipping back into lurk mode.....
>  
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